Oh, yeah, I'm not faulting you for saying it's not okay -- I agree completely. It really isn't a good way to do things at all, but better to just chat with the person and invite them on a personal level. I would have been annoyed if I was in even a slightly worse mood, honestly.

All I was saying is that the Muns behind the four England Duelists aren't here because we feel obligated, but because we want to be.